Free self-test

Get initial clarity on which attachment pattern is shaping your relationships.

Why do we repeat the same patterns?

Our attachment style forms early and becomes a quiet survival strategy. It silently guides whom we choose, how we respond to closeness, and when we pull away. The first step toward change is recognizing the pattern.

Free self-tests

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Do I have an anxious attachment style?

A short self-test helps you notice whether anxious attachment patterns repeat in your relationships.

  • Your main anxious reactions and their roots
  • Why a relationship can throw you so deeply off balance
  • How to distinguish real love from anxiety
  • First steps to restore inner safety
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Do I have an avoidant attachment style?

Avoidance does not mean you do not care. This test helps you understand whether closeness makes you shut down or whether you need safer space.

  • Why you move away from intimacy
  • How to distinguish a need for space from fear
  • Which steps help create safer contact

From awareness to solutions

A test gives initial clarity, but real change comes from conscious work. If you want to go deeper, you will find digital materials and personal counselling on the products page, or you can choose the path that fits your situation.

Free self-tests and guides

Attachment patterns influence how we seek closeness, respond to uncertainty, and begin to lose ourselves or withdraw in relationships. A free self-test helps you notice the first patterns without judgement.

The test does not diagnose you or define your future. It gives you initial language and reflection so you can understand your reactions more clearly.

What can a self-test offer?

  • a clearer sense of whether anxious or avoidant patterns repeat in your relationships;
  • first questions to reflect on calmly;
  • a direction for what support or material may fit your next step.

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